It is likely that you have never felt that you belonged in the current religion that you are practicing.
As much as possible, you would like to convert to another religion.
Within the year, talk turned to marriage, both a hopeful prospect and a dreadful thought. Ali believed that both of my previous marriages had failed because he was my match. Our paths certainly had crossed many times, and we seemed to fit together perfectly, but for one thing––Ali was already married.
Even though I had heard that polygyny always ended in broken hearts, mayhem, and dismemberment, the idea of sharing a husband had never bothered me.
It is better not to reject the proposition of a man who is religious and of good character.
The Prophet has said, “When a man whose religion and character pleases you comes to you [with a proposition], then marry him.
She should not marry except a man who is religious, chaste, of good character, not a drunkard or someone who commits sins and evil deeds.
About the second point it banks on the assumption that only a female can be infertile, what if the man is?
Accordingly to your second justification a woman should be allowed to have multiple husband if his husband it infertile.
If you do not do so, there will be chaos and a great corruption in the world.” (5) It is mustahab (recommended) to work in getting people married, in being intermediary, and in bringing the two parties to an agreement.
It is permissible for a man to look at the attractive features of the woman he intends to marry.