And you’ll definitely never see him on birthdays and Christmas. You will tire of hearing ‘if only I’d met you 10 years ago.’ 9.
You find yourself going out less and less with friends, in case he can spare an hour to see you. Forget planning a nice romantic weekend away, there will always be some reason why it doesn’t happen. The awful cocktail of emotions when (not if) someone finds out about your affair – fear they’ll tell his wife, shame and, weirdly, some small relief.
This means they’ll manipulate you into thinking they’re miserable so you’ll take pity on them. Do you really want to waste your time with a married man who you never have a chance of actually being with?
Does he really have feelings for you or is he just fabricating them so you’ll climb into his bed?
Our feelings don’t just get turned off the second we realize they have a ring. If you find yourself in the midst of dating a married man, there are different things you should make sure you’re doing to ensure that you really want to go on loving this man. It can get really complicated, messy, and your feelings could get destroyed in the process.
If you still want to move forward with dating a married man, this is everything you should know.
Here’s 21 reasons you should never have an affair with a married man.
You’ll look permanently tired through sleepless nights thinking of him with his wife. Even though he’s told you they don’t have sex any more. Having to listen to that old chestnut – his wife doesn’t understand him.
For some women it could be just that high feeling from the “adrenaline rush”, while others have a sense of achievement of a status in the society when they are seen with an accomplished and successful man. In many ways they can seem more mature, attractive and have their lives more together than their shambolic single counterparts. Too many nights of looking stunning in your new outfit only to be admired by the cat as you’re let down yet again. In the unlikely event of being seen out anywhere by anyone he knows, you will be introduced as his niece/ cousin/ babysitter. If he has kids it’s highly unlikely he wants more, even though your imagination is working overtime dreaming of your own little family together. You can never just phone him when you’re having a bad day. And sadly, as some grow bored of what they have at home, there’s apparently no shortage of them looking to cheat. As well as the big, glaring explanations for avoiding these – feeling bad about yourself and playing a part in ruining a relationship and possibly a family – there’s other things that will leave you with a bad taste in your mouth. Dating married man is not something any of us want to do.We know it’s wrong and harmful, but we can’t always help how we feel. We can never control how we feel about someone – no matter if they’re married or not.