As I re-call my experience I will make these reflections clear through topics affectionately called “vignettes de crazy”. Because of this experience I am now grappling with the following questions: what drives me to look for romantic love?And at several points I will refer to Sakyong Mipham’s book Ruling Your World: Ancient Strategies for Modern Life, because in the midst of my craziness his book was sort-of a lifeline for me. Buddha: reflections on Internet dating, the dharma and one Shambhala warrior’s failed attempt to find love online. Why do I choose the romantic partners that I choose? And what do the answers to these questions reveal about myself on this path towards spiritual awakening?
I also find that I rarely match with guys outside of my race."There's no denying race matters when it comes to online dating.
Modern romance has become infinitely more complicated than it was just a few years ago.
Technology has transformed dating into a multifaceted game involving swiping, algorithms and digital performance art.
The person we choose to love and be connected to for the rest of our life is the single most important decision we could ever make.
So take your time, and ensure you are a person who will attract love when it comes on your way.