But then she said that she wanted me to drive to her and pick her up, drive back to my place, have dinner and sex and then drive her back to her place and then for me to come home. WHen I asked if it would be possible for her to just drive to me, she said the guy should always pick up the girl. I dont even know her that well to the point that I dont even know what she does for a living so having sex seems like it is too soon for me. As long as she doesn’t try to leech off of you, I don’t see why this matters.
Our first date we met for a drink and it ended with a good makeout session. On date #2 I went to her place to pick her up and we went to lunch. I didnt have a condom so I didnt, but the fact I had to get back to work provided the perfect way out. She said we would do it the next next night which was a Friday night (and presumably I would be condom ready). They just typically lie about it so they can cling to the moral high ground. Citing a lack of a condom and the “too soon” excuse just makes you sound discerning and reasonable. You could debate her on this and say it’s silly and needless.
Here is a scenario that happened with a woman I met. She never mentioned anything about being laid off and she didnt mention anything about money being tight. You didn’t have sex with her because you were intimidated in some way and feared you couldn’t deliver. Either accept that you’ll have to do a little bit of harmless hoop jumping or buy those cats now. (Which must have made her a joy to be married to, btw.) You’re still thinking that femininity means being coy and reserved.
So maybe she has income from other sources but it is something I am curious about. This wasn’t about catching The AIDS or fearing that you’ll be overpowered and chopped up and put into a box under her bed. She needs you to “treat her like a lady” so she can screw with wild abandon. Women nowadays are far more assertive than they were when you were first dating.
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