I’ve been talking to a lot of younger guys lately about women and dating.
Often I find myself being very jealous of these guys, even when they’re screwing up and making all the usual mistakes.
He’s competing based on sophistication, class, power and status. And some women ONLY want a guy who fits in at raves and keg parties. We go out two nights (and have three days of seminar instruction and exercises) as part of our comprehensive bootcamp every weekend.
He told me his Love Systems bootcamp was his “last chance.” Talk about pressure! Brian’s competition is mostly the young, trendy guys women will see in class or in entry-level jobs every day. If Bill Gates and I wanted the same woman, I’d ask him to pay me off you can be damn sure that I’d change the subject every time “computers” or “having trillions of dollars lying around” came up. The road Brian was on, he would at best become a competent imitator, but always inferior to the real thing. Instead of letting him wear clothes too young for him, we put him in a suit. These are powerful aphrodisiacs, especially in older men.
And Brian was assuming that he had to beat them at their game – be just as young, energetic, cool, and trendy as them. And instead of trying to order Jaeger shots over blaring music, we took him to lounges and wine bars where his class and sophistication could show through.
this article is focused on age differences, but many of the techniques can be translated for dating across cultures, borders, language, and so on.) Far too many men think that you have to be rich, famous, or have the moves of a professionally-trained Love Systems lead instructor to date young, beautiful women. It comes from older women (or younger men) who don’t want the competition. Sometimes it’s just easier to give up on your goals because they are “impossible” than it is to pursue them. It’s not politically correct to say this, but as someone who prefers to date younger women myself, I prefer to date women who have less baggage, less cynicism, and more love of life and adventure. So, I’m going to share some powerful techniques – right here.
In other words, it can be tough knowing that there are guys who are no better than you having the time of their lives and dating young, beautiful women... About a year ago, I was leading a Love Systems bootcamp in New York.