"I believe love and connection are what human beings long for and without it there is a great deal of needless suffering.
I help people find a deeper connection, and experience greater intimacy and love.
Once in Greenwich, a man who appeared significantly older than his advertised age of 42 greeted Taylor at the train station and then drove her to the largest house she had ever seen.
He changed into his swimming trunks, she put on a skimpy bathing suit, and then, by the side of his pool, she rubbed sunscreen into the folds of his sagging back -- bracing herself to endure an afternoon of sex with someone she suspected was actually about 30 years her senior.
But then I have days when I crack under insurmountable pressure to lock things down with a guy.
She planned on spending the day with a man she had met online, but not in person.
Taylor, a 22-year-old student at Hunter College, had confided in her roommate about the trip and they agreed to swap text messages during the day to make sure she was safe.
They predicted that keeping the creeps out would make the whole experience better for everyone, including the nice guys who sometimes get lumped in with the pervs by default.
The first step after downloading Wyldfire is to join through Facebook, a make-or-break moment which is pretty high-security (this Lady Bit got rejected a few times before recalling that her gender on Facebook was set to "androgynous").