I replied saying that I cared about her etc and would call that night, which I did and we had another long chat where she asked when we were going to meet up.I agreed to meet her on the Sunday – This was no blind date as both our photos were posted on the dating site.In life, we are able to see how people feel about us and what we feel about each other through measurements of consistency. Although our technological advancements make it easier for us to “interact”, they don’t always make it easy for us to “connect.” Many times, because we don’t understand the difference between the two. Interaction, in my opinion, is my communicative ability to be able to meet you. “Phantoms” are a no-no and an instant red flag but are all too common in today’s dating practices.We do this naturally as a learned behavior with one another. Anyone that can not be a consistent source of communication or a consistent presence in your life either: Don’t waste your time with “phantoms”. Connection is “getting to know” someone at a party.If you meet someone that shows an interest beyond the usual, communication and consistency of communication will express to you how “serious” they really are.
Our first conversation lasted two hours and one of her stipulations was that she did not send text messages nor ask men out. We talked a few more times on the phone with each chat lasting about an hour.If anything, it’ll lead you down the path of spending time with women who aren’t the kind that you really gel with.This is why you should be shamelessly inconsistent!she tells him she is busy and/or doesn't respond to him for awhile.What is the message a man gets when he encounters this behavior?