See above, but also the way he talks about his female friends or even just the way he talks about Mindy Kaling or Lena Dunham; all of it adds up and speaks volumes. (I have done this and I am very smart, but also: abs.)4. But it’s 100 percent not going to go anywhere if you don’t spend a tiny bit more time and energy on it." data-reactid="24"4. But it’s 100 percent not going to go anywhere if you don’t spend a tiny bit more time and energy on it.
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Smart women are smart, because of decisions they make and the way they live. We get that you are in love, but that isn’t an excuse.
Smart women know what they want and how to achieve it. If you actually really are, you wouldn’t have a problem of going out (either together or in girl and guy companies).
Someone like you should know her priorities and what is good for her. Like he is 30 or whatever and he hasn’t done anything good for himself (like educating), so don’t try to change him and make him something he is not. Another side of the guys you shouldn’t miss – the way they talk about other women.
However, experts argue that first meeting gives a fairly correct idea of the man.
This is true even if you are best friends and you know him and feel close to him.
This is the worst way to start Asking him about how he feels, the awkward “do you like me” question, is a big no-no too, for the same reasons.
They like working and most of them have careers and also they make smart decisions. Of course, as they say ‘Love is blind’ , even for very smart women. Probably you miss those cocktail hours with your girlfriends, because the guy is your ‘future’. But that doesn’t mean, that you don’t need your friends and they don’t need you. It is important to have more than 1 person in your life, that you care about.
There are mistakes that they make in their relationships. But there was this guy, that you dated, that treated you like crap. Hey, remember the fact how amazing, smart, hard working and beautiful you are? Now look at your guy – is he meeting you and your standards?