A big obstacle to finding love after 50 happens when you're NOT putting yourself in places where you can be seen and found by available men on a DAILY BASIS! What man doesn't love improving his golf swing and now they can do it year round at indoor and outdoor driving ranges. Men are there checking out books and movies every day. All you have to do is make sure you're in places where the two of you can meet. Have a vision that is too narrow when it comes to the kind of men you are willing to date.
Men can't find you when you're hiding every night at home. Ask most women what they want in a man and a type similar to Richard Gere's character in "Pretty Woman" comes to mind. Having been spoon fed on fairy tales as a little girl can jade you to who a great guy might be- often giving you unrealistic expectations of who "Quality Men" really are. Stay open to dating all kinds of men with all kinds of looks, backgrounds, and interests as long as they are economically self sufficient, meaning they can hold their own and won't be financially dependent on you. Give up on dating after one or even five bad dates!
If you’ve been avoiding going online because you’re thinking that it’s only […] Read more For those of you in your 40s or 50s who are recently divorced, widowed, or just eager to re-partner, dating again can be daunting.Getting it right the first time was not the way life happened for me and I imagine for many of you as well.I didn’t get the results of what I expected to get earlier in my life and life doesn’t always turn out the way we hope, dream, and plan.From Dating After 50 For Dummies By Pepper Schwartz The exciting part of dating again after age 50 is that the relationship can take any shape you want.There’s more communication, more honesty, and fewer assumptions about what “dating” means or where it’s going.