Most date or marry women and engage sexually with men they meet only in anonymous settings like bathhouses and parks or through the Internet.
Many of these men are young and from the inner city, where they live in a hypermasculine thug culture.
The relatively high fee for male users ensures paying members a realistic chance for spontaneous casual date.
Victoria is a married dating site that specifically targets those interested in infidelity.
Given its emphasis on sex, I was also surprised by how respectful and NOT pornographic everyone was.
That said, need to warn you: the following slides do contain some racy and sexual content.
DOWN LOW- a secret underground organization where straight, masculine, "thug like" black men, often with wives and girlfriends secretly have unprotected sex with other black men- also known as "the DL".
Down-low has been viewed as "a type of impression management that some of the informants use to present themselves in a manner that is consistent with perceived norms about masculine attribute, attitudes, and behavior".
C-Date works discreetly, with a focus on the privacy of their members.
After registration you receive appropriate date suggestions daily based on your sexual preferences, desires and expectations of a partner.
When I confronted my husband, Chris (not his real name), with my test results that night, he denied he was to blame.
"They've got to be wrong, or I must have picked up something in the gym," he insisted.