[Read: Do you believe in love or have you given up on finding it? [Read: 20 reasons to get married and live happily ever after] The blind side of unhappy marriages It’s easy to see the signs of an unhealthy loveless marriage when we’re staring at other couples walking down a street.
] Many of us lead our lives this way, believing that love and marriage is nothing but a support system where you have someone to rely on, for emergencies and family gatherings. But when we have to introspect, all we have are blind spots spread over all our flaws.
After we had our daughter Kim*, Brian convinced me to stay for another two years.
Or maybe you just feel that way because divorce is the scariest thing you’ve ever experienced in your life. So you keep on keeping on because it wouldn’t be fair to suck your ex back into the drama you’ve spent the past year working so hard to overcome. As I write this tonight at my house he’s 25 miles down the road at his place with the kids because it’s his night. Your Facebook name, profile photo and other personal information you make public on Facebook (e.g., school, work, current city, age) will appear with your comment. So you float away from each other and appear to make drastic improvements to yourselves and your respective lives, which confirms to you that divorce was the right call. Sometimes you feel like the divorce might be a mistake and other times you feel like you’ve never viewed life from a clearer perspective — you’ve never been stronger.You maintain positive communications, for the most part, and congratulate yourself on a divorce well done. But even while you’re congratulating yourself, you’re second-guessing yourself. It makes you feel scared and floppy within the world.