Finding a date in today's fast-paced world is challenging enough, without the complication of hooking up with a guy who seems to have another girl on the side.Girls have to be more cautious when choosing the guys they will be in a relationship with, because there are men who like to play around, and you might not be the only he is referring to when he changes his status to "In a relationship".Instead, keep your options open to keep your sanity and remind him that you are a prize to be won.When you stop over-investing too quickly, you’ll start getting the kind of affection and attention you crave.” While that’s not a full-proof way of thinking and sometimes things are not nearly as cut-and-dried, pay attention to last-minute dates that suddenly canceled.Especially the ones that get canceled for no good reason.
Not to say that it’s always right, but if something feels not quite right, it’s OK to bring it up to him.In your heart of hearts, you know you are much more into the relationship than he is, but now you are beginning to think someone else is in the picture as well.If you start to have nagging doubts about him, and recognize things that might indicate he has a secret girlfriend, here are some red flags to look out for.Until then, it’s all speculation, hope, fantasy, desire, wishful thinking, and potential. What I’m writing about is what you make all of this dating stuff MEAN. remember the phone session we had last month where we were looking at one of the guys who had written to me on Match.See, you’re identifying each man as the problem here. After all, if 50% of all guys are going to disappoint, then this behavior is utterly predictable. But then after exchanging several emails and a few phone conversations, he told me he was dating someone else and that he would call if things didn’t work out, and I was a bit upset by that. She doesn’t assume that they’re “together” because they kissed.