If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).1) Be Independent Some “experts” say you should act unavailable.
How long before insecurities, neediness, and jealousy creep in? If you’re struggling to find people willing to move beyond casual dating, there’s a good chance you’re giving too much.
But, this doesn't mean you have to stop living your lives and enter a serious, long-term, monogamous relationship. Before you can figure out what you want, stop calling it what it isn't.
We are a generation that simply refuses to admit when we have feelings for someone.
Are you a happy person with healthy confidence and boundaries? Many men are looking for and want to adore women like that. Pulling away and just focusing on fulfilling your own needs, at this point, is the first start.2.
A woman like that has tons of options because she is a rare commodity. Don't use a relationship as security.weheartit Is your identity too much enmeshed in this relationship or the idea of being his girlfriend? You don't want a relationship as much as you want the security of a relationship.