And when your ideal partner is scrolling through hundreds of names – Sally102, Jen NYC1, Lawyer Gal – a great username can be the very reason that someone contacts you. And you become convinced that usernames don’t matter. In my opinion, a username should be a pun or a play on words. Wine Not – for the wine aficionado Lady Go Go – for the world traveler Bach To Bach – for the classical music enthusiast Tender Legal – for the soft-hearted lawyer See the common thread?
Most people take one of two wrong tacks when coming up with an online dating username: 1) Putting ZERO thought into it: Bill10247, Claire T, Ally Cat 2) Putting minimal thought into it, using a literal description: Tall Doctor, Gorgeous Goddess, Fun2Be Around The problem with these efforts, of course, is not that they’re “bad”, but rather that they’re BORING. All of them are plays off of real names, idioms or catchphrases, which is why they evoke smiles from readers.
So try not to bore them like the people they would actually meet in real life.
Women are drawn to men who are strong, confident and with a brash of masculinity that would have them fantasizing in an instant about having sex with you. But do not be crude about it like most men would by posting an obscene picture or showing off your puny muscles.
As someone who has been an online dating coach since 2003, I’d venture to guess that I’ve not only seen more usernames than just about anyone on the planet, but I’ve written more of them as well.
Chava said to him, "They are crying because they are hungry." Adam immediately recognized that she was right and gave her the name "Chaya" because she was a nurturer. The snake affair was alluded to in her name (Klei Yakar – Genesis ).
You are are looking for something they might not really get in their normal lives.
They are looking for something different and exciting.
determines if a woman should consider talking to you or if you are just a waste of her time.
The fact that she is not looking for commitment does not mean she would just settle for any dude with an available pecker.