Denise Cullington Author of Breaking Up Blues: A Guide to Survival and Growth Smart Dating – How to find your man By Mary Balfour, MD, Drawing Down the Moon Introduction Agency Any man who is spotted by a woman with this book lurking in her handbag may not remain single for long.
It is written by a woman with 30 years’ practical experience of helping women find a partner they can fall in love and share their lives with.
And David has become ‘Matchmaker Extraordinaire in having the magic touch of finding the perfect date matches for his many private clients.
David, in his personal life is a family man who resides very close to the sea which he adores!
You may have deliberately gone out there hoping to find someone, but in a way it is not so different than dating in your teens and twenties - when friendships and flirtations may (or may not) develop into something further.
It doesn't have to be all agony - it can be fun too.
I have tried internet-dating but unfortunately I have drawn the conclusion that it is not for me.I do go out, and I attend events where lots of people have the same interests as I do, but the trouble with such events is that you only see a particular side of these people, and nobody seems interested in getting to know what you are like outside that environment. I don't really want to be on my own until I die, but neither am I prepared to play along with the games that the men on dating websites seem to play. Cassandra Dear Cassandra, To use the immortal word of Kate Winslet at the Golden Globes, gather!Some of them are rude and make comments about my appearance. Things have not gone right so far, but you're doing a lot of things wrong, and it's time to dust yourself off and start all over again. I took myself off to the Darwin exhibition at the Natural History Museum lately, and it made me think a lot, as it was meant to, about natural selection and survival of the fittest.I am writing because I am in a bad frame of mind about ever again finding someone to be with.I accept that I am 45, and maybe a tad cuddly, but it appears that I am on the scrap heap when it comes to finding a new partner.